OBB will be closing
I enjoy posting to OBB. Due to health issues, most of my activity consists of doctor appointments and grocery shopping, so posting provides an entertainment outlet.
I got the bill for October, $191. Charges for the two previous months were $40. I can eat that, but not $191.
I have no control over the charges or any idea what caused the bill to go up four-fold. It’s based on usage. There are four times as many readers as two months ago. To use the overworked phrase, It is what it is.
I have not posted in four days the number of eyeballs has remained constant.
I will revert to https://ourbottomsburn.blogspot.com/ I will post racy pictures on https://ourbottomsburn.bdsmlr.com/. Maybe this time I will not screw up and post them to blogger.
I will announce here when I terminate this site.
Meanwhile enjoy a bit of This and That
This is Melissa Rauch. I sure would like to meet her
Bacall and I were on an escalator close to Christmas. There was a mannequin visible from the escalator dressed in drop-seat jammies. We bought them. Had little Scotties puppies on them.
Girls Will Be Girls
When our daughter was about 10, she did not want to leave her room. I had to toss her outside and lock the door to allow us some playtime.
I enjoyed her blog. She went poof.
For all of us guys who wanted to be the VP of paddling wayward girls
This would be a sane reason to transition
Not the way I see being spanked together, but would be fun anyway.
Is she training for a j0b down at the Twist and Shout? Here’s Ferris doing the Beatles song.
Scientists have discovered what makes a woman’s bottom attractive
From an article in the Daily Mail
The intergluteal cleft (often referred to as the ‘crack’) was the area both men and women looked at first but also where they lingered the longest.
Men and women alike homed in on the bum crack in about one second and then lingered there for a second longer, the fastest and longest periods of any area respectively.
What? I don’t look at the crack. Not even a plumbers.
You can read the article with the link below.
Or y0u can look at spanked bottoms. Ass crack my ass.
Our Friends the Brits
Well, I’ve never been to England
But I kinda like the Beatles
Well, I headed for Las Vegas
Only made it out to Needles
How to spot pictures taken in England.
The wallpaper is a giveaway. She sure is cute.
A sandal is being used. Leather or wood would be a good choice.
When you see what we Yanks call a bedroom slipper being used, it’s a Brit for sure.
Another slipper. How about her expression?
No clue how they adopted a carpet sweeper. Plumbing and wiring external means it’s British. They share with Americans doing CP in the basement.
Have to say her thighs are inviting
Grandpa using a cane on a young lass means it was done for a British magazine. Perhaps a group of elderly gentlemen got together and published and modeled in the magazine? Sure beats lawn bowling.
Looks like he is wearing a professo’rs robe. External wiring again.
The radiator and the floral print mark this as being in an English home
Of course, never having been to England, I could be completely wrong about all of this.
Hump Day
It’s been forever since I posted a Hump Day Picture.
I tried several ways to give wet bottom spankings. Such as having her soak her panties in cold water and using a spray bottle. After two licks with a paddle, the water is dispersed in fine droplets all over you, and the effect is lost. Coating her with mineral oil or glycerin works better. But the best way is to get into the shower with her and go to town on her bottom.
They always look. They look again the next day and every day until the marks are gone. Then it’s time to rinse and repeat.
This makes me think of a date being spanked for the first time.
As seen on Spanked Hortic. Like her stocking tops. How would you ever use some many canes?
Mrs. Daniels has made almost perfectly round red circles on her bottom
The strap used lightly and long enough has an effect
The switch feels like nothing else. Outside is a good place to use it. Just after she has cut it. It is so effective on the legs. She will wear pants for a week or so. I would tell her more than once that if she did so-and-so I would switch her. She never failed to get switched.
The spanking chair in the parental home. It’s there every time you visit.
There must be a section in stores that sell these dresses so you can play Little Girl again.
All Genders
I am reading Unrequited Infatuations: A Memoir by Stevie Van Zandt. He used the word sapiosexual. I had no idea what it meant so I Googled it. Accommodating genders from birth has been done in ancient empires, like Indian, for millennia.
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Sapiosexual – a person finding intelligence sexually attractive or arousing.
Below that definition, Google listed several other related terms. Some, new to me.
A person who identifies as biromantic can be romantically attracted to multiple genders. Biromantic asexuals seek romantic, but not sexual, relationships with people of more than one gender identity.
When a person is asexual, they are not sexually attracted to anyone.
The prefix “poly” means many, and polysexual individuals are attracted to people of multiple genders. People who identify as polysexual often use that word because it suggests a greater variety of sexual orientations than traditional gender binaries of male and female, or hetero and homosexual.
The four genders are masculine, feminine, neuter and common.
What are some different gender identities?
Agender
A person who is agender does not identify with any particular gender, or they may have no gender at all.
Other terms for this may include:
- neutral gender
- null-gender
- genderless
- neutrois
Androgyne
A person who identifies as androgyne has a gender that is either both masculine and feminine or between masculine and feminine.
Bigender
A person who identifies as bigender has two genders.
People who are bigender often display cultural masculine and feminine roles.
Butch
Women, especially lesbians, tend to use this term to describe the way they express masculinity, or what society defines as masculinity.
However, the LGBTQIA Resource Center state that “butch” can also be a gender identity in itself.
Cisgender
A cisgender person identifies with the sex that they were assigned at birth.
For example, a cisgender woman is someone who still identifies with the sex — female, in this case — a doctor assigned them at birth.
Gender expansive
The LGBTQIA Resource Center define gender expansive as an “umbrella term used for individuals who broaden their own culture’s commonly held definitions of gender, including expectations for its expression, identities, roles, and/or other perceived gender norms.”
Those who are gender expansive include people who are transgender and people whose gender broadens the surrounding society’s notion of what gender is.
Genderfluid
A person who identifies as genderfluid has a gender identity and presentation that shifts between, or shifts outside of, society’s expectations of gender.
Gender outlaw
A person who identifies as a gender outlaw refuses to allow society’s definition of “male” or “female” to define them.
Genderqueer
A person who identifies as genderqueer has a gender identity or expression that is not the same as society’s expectations for their assigned sex or assumed gender.
Genderqueer can also refer to a person who identifies outside of how society defines gender or someone who identifies with a combination of genders.
Masculine of center
A person who uses this term is usually a lesbian or a trans person who leans more toward masculine performances and experiences of gender.
Nonbinary
A person who identifies as nonbinary does not experience gender within the gender binary.
People who are nonbinary may also experience overlap with different gender expressions, such as being gender non-conforming.
Omnigender
A person who identifies as omnigender experiences and possesses all genders.
Polygender and pangender
People who identify as polygender or pangender experience and display parts of multiple genders.
Transgender
This is an umbrella term that encompasses all people who experience and identify with a different gender than that which their assigned sex at birth would suggest.
Although most people think of trans men and trans women when hearing the word transgender, this term also encompasses people who identify as a gender other than man or woman, including nonbinary and genderfluid.
Trans
Trans is a more inclusive term that covers those who identify as nonbinary and those who are genderless, according to the LGBTQIA Resource Center.
Two Spirit
Two Spirit is an umbrella term that encompasses different sexualities and genders in Indigenous Native American communities.
There are many different definitions of Two Spirit, and Indigenous Native American people may or may not use this term to describe their experiences and feelings of masculinity and femininity.
This is a cultural term that is reserved for those who identify as an Indigenous Native American.
And throw this in the mix
Incel
a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile toward women and men who are sexually active.
Monday, Monday
For Openers
Seated showing a little more than necessary. Or jumping and showing it all.
Girls Will Be Girls
Girls want to be spanked. Guys want to spank girls. Schools need money. What better way to eliminate a tax, fund schools and encourage the pursuit of happiness?
As Seen on Hortic
Blogging
I agree with this reader’s view.
Blogging is definitely in decline both in quantity and quality as well. It feels generational to me; as in belonging more to ours than the ones coming after, hence the fall-off. What was so new and exhilarating is 30-plus years old now. We’ve… aged.
The younger generation largely lacks writing and composition skills. Hence they opt for pics, vids and short comments not requiring punctuation or grammatical structure.
Are these three links of no interest?
In news from 2021, spanking is mainstream in Texas
In some kind of contest, she takes hard licks and does not flinch
It Won’t Fit Inside Because It’s Too Big
The Spanking Couple seemed to be like us. I would have liked to have met them and found out.
A modern room, with classic desks. I wonder what it is.
Agreeably across my lap, in appealing panties and a pony tail. That’s enough for me.
She wants a sound paddling, she got the bath brush
She goes over the desk with a practiced motion. Oh, wait, it’s a pro shoot.
I Am Different
I am different. I am a 50/50 switch. That places me in a minority of spankos. I am married to a switch – that puts me in an even smaller minority. We have both played with others, putting us into rarified territory.
The way I am paddled is probably different than your method.
Remember this when reading OBB, as my experiences almost certainly differ from yours.
For instance, I have an erection from the moment I know I am going to be paddled. It stays with me throughout the paddling. The paddle licks are hard, but I have a few seconds to recover between licks. If I were paddled fast and furious, it would go from pleasure to punishment, and my boner would get lost. So I don’t go there.
Put another way, I would not take a spanking if I were not aroused, as the pain would not be pleasant.
This is a survey that shows that most men only get aroused after a spanking. So, I am in the minority on that. [Scroll down and see the 65 answers to question 22. PS I have never leaked anything at any time. Do these men have an STD or prostate problems?]
I will illustrate how I come to a spanking with two old Nu-West photos
How to prevent pleasure
According to the survey, the way most men come to a spanking
Yesterday’s Harvest
I harvested these images yesterday. I thought why not just post the mixed breed set as This and That.
This one was captioned that she was trying out a thigh slapper. I don’t see a single stripe. I could help her.
This is most formally dressed spanker I have seen. And a Ginger to Boot.
I made up a story that this was the first time she had been spanked by the man taking the picture. She dressed up just for the occasion. No ring.
One Perfect Bottom in a plaid not known to me
Royal Stewart goes well with rosy cheeks
Penalty Swats in the Locker Room
Did you know some guys have a sweater fetish?
Girdlemania
The recent Christian Discipline post had a picture of a woman wearing a girdle. It rekindled my fascination with this old-fashioned garment.
I grew up when girdles were used as birth control. Really. Some Mothers made their daughters wear one, reasoning she might regain control over her hormones before she could get her girdle off. Mothers would give their daughters a pinch as they left the house to ensure protection was in place.
I remember one gal who as soon as we pulled away from her house, she began divesting the myriad of garments her Mother made her put on.
The day I became a spanko. I was in the Navy. I was trading “girlie” magazines with a guy. He had one magazine with pictures of women wearing girdles and spanking each other. I don’t think I had ever seen a picture depicting spanking. But in half a second, I was addicted to spanking as a switch.
In my early twenties, many of the gals I dated wore a girdle as it has been inculcated on them that a proper young lady did not giggle. [This was before the advent of detestable pantyhose, which were much better at birth control than a girdle]
So while girdles have long been “out of fashion” some of us old guys have a fetish for them.
I never cared to see a woman who really needed a girdle wearing one. I only care for slim-waisted women. I “panty-shopped” with a gal who was a size 2. We found her a panty girdle, and I warmed her up in it many times. We got matching ones for both Bacall and myself. You gotta have a fetish.
This one was nothing but a panty made of stretchy Lycra. I assure you it would not mold you or hold back much of the sting of a wooden paddle. The three of us would don our girdle and proceed to paddle each other. I would paddle them. They would paddle me. They would paddle each other. Then we would dog pile on the bed and have fun. You gotta indulge your fetish.
A fellow girdle fetish reader sent me this picture of a “modern” girdle. You want to spank her don’t you? Maybe she wants to spank you as well?
I fell in love with Cybill Shepherd when I saw her in this pool scene in the 1971 The Last Picture Show. [Yes, she stripped]
