Dressing for a spanking. Maybe I make a bigger deal out of this than it merits. The anticipation of a spanking is a large part of it for me. It does not matter if I am giving or receiving, the anticipation is arousing. Ditto for Bacall. She normally likes to contemplate a spanking overnight.
A girl’s first sex is usually not pleasurable or meaningful for her. She has little idea of what she is getting into. The difference with her first adult spanking is that she has had years to plan it. She may have been thinking about getting spanked from 5 years old.
Suppose a gal you have dated decides you are going to get lucky. Does she ask you if you prefer thong or boy-short panties? No, I think not. But for her first adult spanking, she may well ask that.
I always took notes of what she revealed in her notes. Most details came from a story that she wrote for me. That gave me a plan of how the spanking would unfold. It was not role-play. I did not (and would not) have a script. I enjoyed reacting to what she said. Call it acting.
There would usually be a question of what did I expect from the spanking. Meaning did I want a Thank You blowjob. If I were going to give her the spanking she dreamed of, why would I spoil it with having her do something that might give her no pleasure. Cuddling after and getting a debrief from her about the spanking was intimate enough for me.
ah, the “no recip” one used to see often in CL ads. I suspect it’s more effective in the spanking world, and helps a lass get comfortable with being in such a vulnerable state.
otoh, I was recently offered a BJ, and I offered to spank her as thanks.
sadly, we’ve been cockblocked by covid, but perhaps soon.
You lost me right off ah, the “no recip” one used to see often in CL ads.
I got Covid in August, 5 days in the hospital. It sucked my energy out. May never recover. Hope you do.
I’ve had it four times, that I know of, and strongly suspect at least one other time. first two were non-events, second two, post vax, were worse.
fortunately, it was not me, but the lass, this time.
“no recip” = no reciprocation
Dressing for spanking is an absolute given in the UK spanking scene. Most spankees have an impressive list of costumes and are willing to indulge clents’ whims as to role-playing. Of course there is the perennial demand for school uniform (yawn, yawn) but also the popular secretary, nurse etc. While not particular about specific dress rules, and not into role-playing, I discovered a taste for the lady to wear a basque, high heels, and in cooler months, black hold-up stockings. Now this will shock – stockings attached to a suspender belt (garter belt) leave me cold. Attractive to look at maybe, but in a spanking situation, a turn off.
I was thinking of the girl next door, who has never been spanked. But has been thinking about it for years. She learns about a spanking group that has a rep for being safe. She joins and wears the spanking outfit that she has thought about for years. Difference being it is her choice, not a client’s.
This is a corset, but close to a basque.
We all have different tastes. She could wear a garter belt, stockings and pearls and I would be happy. It frames her cheeks.
what, pray tell, is a Basque?
Similar in appearance to a corset, but not structured and boned to squeeze the waist. Corsets are usually laced up the back to allow tightening. The picture posted by Bogey is technically a basque, because it is not structured. Both basques and corsets can be seen with suspenders attached. The origin of the basque dates back to the ‘national’ costume of ladies of the Basque region of spain, which had sleeves, and because it flattered the figure, was copied by ladies in other countries. Remember old western films, where saloon girls always seemed to wear a corset like top over their skirts? Over here there are plenty of 1950s underwear fetishists who adore corsets that are built like armour, but would dismiss the flimsy and pretty basque as ‘foreign’. For them the differences are not subtle, it is a matter of religious tenet. Today both corsets and basques have evolved from their origins, the differences less distinct, and so for most of us the names can be interchangeable. Therefore Bogey’s delightful picture could be titled either.
It’s a bit like looking at porn… after a while a nude is a nude no matter how lovely. But add one piece of lingerie, something in sheer black perhaps? Oooh-la-la! Dressing up, or down, is starting fluid for the imagination.
The offering of a b.j. seems almost on par with “hey, would you like a shoulder rub?” these days. A few presidents back, it was apparently decided that such a thing wasn’t sex anymore. Who knew? For a boomer, that still (pun alert…) blows me away.
I forgot to say that men should also dress. No sweats, jeans, ball caps. Slacks with a crease, collared shirt.
I’d add starched jeans, polished boots and a Stetson to the approved list. Some gals like to save a horse, ride a cowboy after all. Suit and tie if you really want to make an impression, ’cause ZZ Top said “every girl crazy ’bout a sharp-dressed man!”
Sure, Bacall likes that attire. Starched jeans make a rodeo for her. Also cavalry shirts like John Wayne wore. She had me buy one. I don’t think I ever wore it out of the house, but she, me, a belt and the shirt went into the closet many times.
I had two fancy vests I would wear in the evenings at parties.
I have an expensive Stetson. I would wear it more, but I don’t have a truck that has the headroom. And I can no longer wear boots.
The picture I have stamped in my brain when I first got spanked. She wore pink lingerie with thigh high stockings and some pink panties. I got lots of hand spankings.
My g/f likes to dress in her cheer leader outfit with some white panties
does this internet host charge you by the hit ?
If only you write four paragraphs about the gal in the pink panties.
Does your GF dress in her outfit to spank or be spanked?
Traffic is one of the variables and the one that runs up the bill.
Yah, I have tried writing a story like that based in real experience I dont like how it reads even worse then my fantasy writes you put in your old blog.
I spank her in the cheer leader outfit
I do have a fantasy of being spanked by a nun or spanking one, lot of the nun spanking pics look like miners being spanked not into that
I real like this seasonal witch pic the broom like a panty cloths line
There is something we call a triple where the person being spanked. is first spanked on the pants, then they are lowered for a second spanking on the underpants, followed by a third bare bottom spanking. Each one a complete sound spanking. There is something about knowing that a next one is coming that makes it very exciting. Normally we just start with a bare bottom.
Who is we?
Interesting, that’s the way I asked Bacall to paddle me when we first married. It continued for several years. Then I got bold and foolish and wanted it the bare right off, with no warm-up.