Toys

Michael got the

– 9-ply, 3/4 inch birch round at the Far Left

– 1/2″ southern pine – Second from the right

– Bakelite hairbrush – the Quiet Queen that burns

We do switch. There’s some ebb and flow to it. My wife likes being spanked but was opposed to spanking until I helped her to see them as “spicy massages.”

When I spank her there’s a strong sexy dominance element but I also have shown her how much I like creating color and seeing her body move, which are things she can appreciate from the giving end.

Continuing to rack up experiences with that round paddle. [a 3/4″ butt pounder] Last night she gave me about 200 medium-strength swats. Feeling it nicely today. The first 70-80 or so are hard to stay still for, but then we settle in and being a guy I’m determined to take whatever she wants to give because I’m just glad she’s into it!

I gave her an incredible belting two nights ago in bed. I keep her close so I can rub between each one. She really likes it and it means I get to spank more before the limit’s hit. Fun for everyone. We’re getting a bit careless with the sounds at night. No one’s scarred, we hope.

On Wed, Nov 22, 2023
You read it right. I am extremely interested in being spanked, to be clear, and I think she looks great holding a paddle whether dressed or no…it’s just a different kind of excitement than the directly sexual.

I liked the round paddle quite a bit. Because it’s shorter and round, she can swing it faster and her arm is light enough that it’s more sting than thud, at least as I’m experiencing it. No soreness the next day but I think she will go longer next time. Hoping that it grows on her as her thing that she can pull out any time to have some fun with me.

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I conducted a short interview and we wrote this.

We’ve done a number of spankings with the pine and the round birch paddles. The pine is a lighter paddle with a fantastic sting. Its length lets one cheek be emphasized or both evenly. We typically spank each other bent over our washing machine since it’s the most private area of the house.Our reactions to being spanked with the pine aren’t the same. I like the way the sting makes me quiver. [We thought it was our #1 stinger] My wife says, “I like the way it makes your upper leg muscles move.” It’s fun but I don’t ramp up much beyond that. The weight of the pine is a good fit for my wife’s strength.

She likes the feel of the wood and the weight of the pine once she’s warmed up, but the sting is hard for her if I don’t do the first few right, and that’s after 100 or so hand spanks to warm up.

We’ve tried a couple of short, intense paddlings of her and while it’s really fun to watch her instantly squirm while bent over, she’s done after 15 seconds. The pine paddle is making me a more patient spanker!

The heavier weight and roundness of the birch mean we are spanked with it quite differently. When she’s getting the birch, it’s because I want to give a quiet spanking. I swing it into her slowly to keep the noise down. The fun for her comes from the momentum and not at all the sting.  But it’s still not her favorite. (We have a handled cutting board that is the best at quiet, slow paddling.)

When I’m getting the birch, it’s an intense, deep-hitting spanking. She paddles me almost as fast as with the pine, with the same moderate strength, and with the birch, that means the first several dozen are stingy and intense, and everything after that builds up a heat and sensitivity that encompasses my entire butt and makes me feel highly thankful for her skill and attention!

After spanking, we will chat about how it went. Since we’re in the laundry room, sometimes I push her down onto a pile of clothes and do stuff. If I spanked her long enough, she’s usually ready to go right over the washing machine. Other times we go to bed and do stuff. Falling asleep next to each other with a couple of hot bottoms is the best ending to a day.

Thanks Michael

A recent post discussed our enjoyment of thigh spanking with a wooden batten. This post is about a malevolent leather slapper.

I learned of it from the wife of a switchy couple at a party. She was new to the group. I had never talked with her. She approached me and asked if I was interested in going with her to their room and getting a spanking. Hell, yes I was interested. I gave her a high score just for approaching me. She told me about a leather slapper that she used to cure her husband’s nicotine habit. She used on his inner thighs. That did not excite me, but she was agreeable to using it on my bottom. And off we went.

She gave me one of the most memorable spankings I have had. Like a fine whiskey, it had a long-lasting pleasant aftertaste. I bought a slapper the next day. It fit perfectly in the space where the bottom and leg meet. The area that is so sensitive. A few licks from Bacall were all I needed to do the spankee dance.

What makes it sting? A steel plate is stitched inside making it semi-rigid.